S3E06 - How do I deal with elder care decisions after a parents health crisis
Sometimes there are decisions that are so overwhelming and emotionally draining that what we decide to do to stay mentally and emotionally fit enough to make the decision is as important as the decision process itself. In today's episode, you'll hear from a guest client facing a difficult decision regarding care for her aging mother with a mental health condition. Listen in, and learn strategies for working through tough decisions involving others.
Episode Notes
Sometimes there are decisions that are so overwhelming and emotionally draining that what we decide to do to stay mentally and emotionally fit enough to make the decision is as important as the decision process itself. In today's episode, you'll hear from a guest client facing a difficult decision regarding care for her aging mother with a mental health condition. Learn strategies for working through tough decisions involving others.
Key topics we cover:
- 1:58 - What's key to consider in emotionally difficult decisions 
- 2:30 - Constraints in decision making 
- 8:31 - How Covey's Circle of Influence is a tool that can be used to identify where to focus your efforts 
- 15:11 - The importance of identifying where you have control and where you don't have as much 
- 17:22 - Divergent vs Convergent thinking in exploring options 
- 22:05 - How constraints can sometimes be helpful 
- 26:04 - How to deal with feelings that seem like an obstacle 
- 29:45 - The importance of identifying what it will take to resource yourself 
Resources if you are impacted by mental illness:
- NAMI.org - National Alliance on Mental Illness 
- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 1 (800) 273-8255 
